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Can I Trust House Sitters with my home and pets?

by Vanessa Anderson

The question on many home owners minds is – “Can I trust house sitters – can they really be trusted”

Think about this. You’ve never met me before. I’ve contacted you online, and I’m offering to come and look after your home, all your worldly possessions, and your precious pets, while you go away on vacation.

I’m asking you to trust me – to have a firm belief in my reliability, honesty and integrity and to have faith that when you return, everything will be just as you left it.

“Yeah right!” I hear you saying incredulously, “sorry, but that’s just not going to happen!”

Yet, that’s exactly what thousands of home owners do every year when they entrust pretty much everything they own to house or pet sitters.

I have to admit, it does sound a little crazy.

But… doesn’t it also sound appealing to have someone look after your home and care for your pets, giving you the opportunity to go away on a well earned vacation?

I understand, it’s a dilemma

It’s one that we too debated long and hard before first using house sitters to look after our island home in Panama. Our rescue dog, Campesino, was “Head of Island Security”. Sadly it was in name only, and he didn’t really have the stamina to see off the local indigenous Indians, who were keen on “active recycling” whenever we left the property for a visa run or to visit friends and family.

What is trust and can you trust house sittersWhat is trust and is it the stuff of good house sitting relationships?

Trust is a synthesis of attributes and for some, difficult to come to terms with.

We’re told (and I believe it to be true), that good relationships are built on the trust. But, this takes time to develop, and let’s face it, you are usually only around for a quick handover when the house sitters arrive at the beginning of the sit.

You can extend your initial contact beyond messaging and emails by organizing free video Skype calls or if you are in the same region, by paying a visit to meet each other.

But often it’s hardly enough time to create a first impression, let alone build a lasting relationship founded on trust!

What I’m going to tell you now might sound shocking, but it’s undeniably true…

Despite all this, house sitting works.

It’s safe; it’s an awesome exchange of trust; and it invariably results in a win-win-win outcome – delighted home owners, joyful house sitters and contented pets!

Doesn’t it sometimes go wrong?

OK I know what’s coming next. We hear this all the time, But what about the house sits that go wrong?”.

Well, compared to the number that go right, the bad sits are minuscule in number. As is generally the case with anything these days, it’s the negative that gets highlighted and there’s usually a quantifiable reason why something went awry.

You see, international house sitters take their work… yes they see it as work… very seriously. There are unspoken rules of house sitting, and ways to minimize any potential problems, but you have to follow professional advice for securing your sitter too.

By this I mean, it isn’t enough to pop into a Facebook group and ask for a house sitter, as if you are advertising an old car on Craigslist or eBay!

I’m serious, we see ads like this all the time:

“I need a house sitter in June, for 3 weeks to look after my remote property in Costa Rica, with 4 dogs, 3 cats and a pool.”

And that’s it.

You might just as well say:

“I’m off on holiday for 3 weeks. Really don’t care who comes to look after my beautiful home and pets, as long as someone comes! Oh and bring your friends, there’s a great pool for partying.”

Approach house sitting professionally

Now obviously, I’m exaggerating. But, if you want things to go well from the start, then do things professionally. That means do the same as 95% of other home owners, and select your sitter from a reputable, professional house sitting platform!

As house sitters we pay to subscribe to a house sitting platform and personally we prefer to use sites where the home owner has to pay as well – sites like TrustedHouseSitters, HouseSitMatch, and Nomador. This is because we believe there’s a certain level of commitment involved when someone has to hand over money.

However, I’m a little embarrassed to say that when we started out in the world of house sitting, we did it wrong.

Unaware that there was even a house sitting community online to approach, we accepted an offer to look after our home from a young traveler who had made his home temporarily in Panama. Unimpressed by the remoteness of our small island, and the lack of entertainment, he made his own, usually somewhere else far from our property, left unoccupied and vulnerable to theft! And our dog, Campesino, was left to fend for himself.

How to overcome house sitter trust issuesHow to overcome your house sitting trust issues

So if house sitting works (and it really does) how do people overcome their trust issues?

Well, as I said, you must approach this professionally. Follow a series of proven procedures so you can confidently select house sitters who’ll do all that they can to ensure you have a stress-free time away.

We learned our lesson quickly and learned to trust again by doing things the right way – by researching the options, checking reviews, talking to people, and joining a number of reputable house sitting websites.

Most importantly, for you and your sitters, carefully address the issue of expectations. You both need to know each other’s expectations and be able to meet them.

If you are new to house sitting, here’s a great article that highlights what some of those expectations might include:

https://housesittingmagazine.com/house-sitting-expectations-thats-unrealistic/

How to make sure your house sit goes well

  • Always use a professional, reputable house sitting platform
  • Make a list of all the essential skills needed to look after your home and pets
  • Be honest about your own expectations
  • Think about what you are offering the house sitter – would you be happy in their shoes?
  • Be totally upfront when you create your listing
  • Always discuss your pet’s temperament and behaviour – be honest about any aggression, anxiety or medical issues they have had in the past, or currently.
  • Provide plenty of photographs of the pets and the property
  • Discuss your needs around cleanliness – some people are laid-back about this, others fastidious in their requirements – find the right match by talking about this.
  • Select your sitters based on relevant skills, experience and verifiable references
  • ALWAYS have a video chat (at the least a phone call), or meet with house sitters before accepting
  • Trust your gut and be mindful of any red flag moments
  • Allow enough time for a thorough personal handover
  • Take time to create an information pack or home book for your sitters

Check out online reviews on TrustPilot.com

Two of the reputable international websites we review and compare here:

https://housesittingmagazine.com/house-sitting-websites-compared/

can be found on TrustPilot.com – one of the world’s largest independent online review communities. Both TrustedHousesitters and HouseSitMatch are rated EXCELLENT overall – you can check out the many house sitting reviews for each of these companies at the links below (just to be clear these are reviews about the company NOT the sitters):

https://trustpilot.com/review/www.trustedhousesitters.com
https://trustpilot.com/review/housesitmatch.com

I would say that all of the house sitting companies know how important trust is. Lamia Walker of HouseSitMatch explores the issue in more depth here:
https://housesittingmagazine.com/reliable-pet-sitting/


If you follow this advice, and use the services of a professional house sitting platform, you really are minimizing any possible problems. It will be much easier to trust house sitters who come to look after your home and pets.

So please think professionally – risk assessment and due diligence are two processes that could make a huge different to your house experience.

We’ve been part of the house sitting community now for 4 years as we mentioned, first as owners, now as sitters. We’ve seen so many people’s lives transformed by the selfless exchange between home owners and sitters, that we can say with certainty it’s a highly valued service all over the world.

Trust me, I know!

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Last updated on November 28th, 2019

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Alan -

Thanks from a sitter.
Yes we don’t charge . Free accomadation for us means we have retired early 50s. Living on a reduce income of £1000 a month. Our monthly out going including travelling average flights car hire. £700.
Our main problem is not having a permanent address only for our governments needs to keep track of us . Ie passports, driving licences. Thankfully really good friends allow us on their postal address. Electoral role. Governments dont like people like us . Nomads. We still pay our taxes and NI though self assessment But a least we have provided our house to be used by a family. Maybe this is the way to solve housing needs. We needed a house for our 4 children but now they grown up a house to us is not necessary.
We don’t own anything ,except our house which we let out for our income. scan all family photos on clouds.
Therefore a 5 star review is very important, every time. We look at sitting as a job . Look after pets , clean house top to bottom. Make sure you enjoy your holiday sending photos and videos of pets enjoying their holiday too.
We hope every sitter take their sits professionally we don’t want to lose our live style because of other people letting the community down.
We love our lives now, seeing Columbia, most States in the USA, Mexico , Australia, New Zealand , Synapore, Canada, and 7 months in the UK a year.
Escape the winter in the UK. Pet sit.

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Vanessa Anderson -

Thanks for stopping by Alan… We agree, it’s important new house sitters take their responsibilities seriously as this industry grows. It would be tragic if something happened to damage this lifestyle many of us enjoy. It is a superb free exchange that benefits everyone. Sounds like you have a wonderful traveling lifestyle – long may it continue!

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